08 May Myths (and realities) of home organizing shows… post by Mary Jo Monroe
As I’ve said in the past, sometimes I just can’t say something any better than someone else. In this case, it’s Mary Jo Monroe of reSPACEd (love your company name, btw) in Portland, OR. People get ideas from TV – some great, some not so great. TV has been fabulous for the Professional Organizing profession in that it has gained us exposure and has let people know that we exist and are here to help. But on the down side, it also gives many people unrealistic expectations of what we can do – and especially the amount of time it takes to do it. I read Mary Jo’s post recently and it was really spot on. So here it is in it’s entirety:
4 things home organizing TV shows don’t tell you
On Monday, I wrote about the realities of being organized. Today, I want to bring up the realities of getting organized. Television shows like “Neat,” “Mission: Organization,” and “Clean Sweep” have opened up a lot of people’s eyes to the problems of disorganization in their homes. The shows have done a great job of educating the general public about the existence of professional organizers. But the programs do not show the realities of getting organized. Here is what the shows would have you believe, and here is the truth:
- Myth: You can get your whole house organized in a day, or even three days.
Reality: The TV shows employ the use of teams of people working 10-12 hour days to organize an entire home. In real life, it is more likely to take you a few months, depending on how cluttered your house is, how often you work on organizing it, how quickly you work, and how many family members you have helping (or hindering) you. Even with a professional organizer at your side, expect to devote a few months to the project.
Myth: Hiring a professional organizer means hiring a drill sergeant or design snob, who will force you to throw away your things.
Reality: There may be some demanding, snobby organizers out there, but I’ve never met one. And if you do stumble across someone and are so unlucky as to hire him or her, you have every right to fire him or her. A good professional organizer is respectful of your decisions and non-judgmental of your possessions and why you choose to keep them. He or she will never force you to part with anything you don’t want to. You are the client, which means you have the final say in what stays and what goes. Always.
Myth: When you hire a professional organizer, you leave the premises and he or she does all the work. Then you come back for the big “reveal” and are pleasantly surprised.
Reality: How could that ever be true? You have to be present in the house most of the time to tell the organizer what your goals are for the space, why disorganization has occurred, and what items stay and go. Again, no professional organizer is going to get rid of your stuff without your approval. You will know what progress and changes are being made every step of the way. And more than likely, you will be working side-by-side with the organizer.
- Myth: Once your whole house is organized, it will remain that way from now on.
Reality: Once you lose the weight, do you never exercise again? Once you balance your checkbook, do you never balance it again? Just like with personal fitness and financial stability, maintaining a state of organization takes a commitment, a certain amount of discipline and sometimes an attitude adjustment. Sound difficult? It can be the most challenging part of organizing — staying organized. But by doing a little bit of decluttering regularly and remembering why you are choosing this new lifestyle, you can continue to keep your home organized. Some people choose to have a professional organizer come to their house once a month on a permanent basis to help keep them on track. You’ll never see that on TV.
Way to go, Mary Jo! A lot of what we do as Professional Organizers is educate our clients and the public. This post goes a long way towards this. Thanks for letting me use this info on my blog!